Dr. Sonja M. Ramirez, Ph.D
Psychologist | Clinical
Virtual office & Teletherapy New York and New Jersey NJ, 07110About
Dr. Sonja M. Ramirez is a licensed clinical psychologist in New York and New Jersey. She has a mobile office under the business name Ramirez Behavioral Healthcare, LLC. Dr. Ramirez also works as a Contract Psychologist for both acute and sub-acute rehabilitation centers. Dr. Ramirez engages in sessions in client's homes, as needed if a client is unable to travel due to physical or mental health issues, such as agoraphobia, major depression, trauma, postpartum depression, or physical injury. Dr. Ramirez will also meet at a park and walk and talk to stimulate the brain, reduce stress and focus on moving forward, one step at a time.
Dr. Ramirez specializes in the treatment of mental health problems. She helps people to cope with their distress by identifying the underlying repetitive thoughts and behaviors leading to poor habits and negative emotions. Dr. Ramirez helps by reframing how the client thinks about him/herself, their future and the world, assisting the client in creating and practicing new behaviors, and focusing on solutions. She’s known for giving “homework” between sessions because “Practice makes progress...I write my weekly affirmations/goals in a dry erase marker on my bathroom mirror. As I get ready for my day, I read it until it sticks. I do something different and I start repeating the adaptive thoughts and behaviors habitually. Then, I erase the learned lessons and write new goals & affirmations. Today’s is, ‘I’m powerful and surround myself with supportive people.’ I practice what I preach, as best I can, with myself and my children.”
As a psychologist, Dr. Ramirez evaluates and treats patients through a variety of methods, most typically being psychotherapy or talk therapy. She also suggests books, music, walking, and journaling. Patients usually visit Dr. Ramirez because they have been experiencing depression, anxiety, identity conflicts, relationship problems, trauma, stress, or anger for a significant period of time and feel they need help. “We all get stuck in our own heads and repeat the same negative thoughts and behaviors that make us feel helpless, hopeless, mad, worried, or sad. Sometimes, we need an objective guide with a different perspective to get off that hamster wheel,” says Dr. Ramirez.
According to Dr. Ramirez, “My client is the expert on his/her life. I'm an objective guide. I offer education, support, guidance, and suggestions. My clients do the hard work to create positive change in their lives...I believe in infinite possibilities and potential. My clients choose their paths...I completed 9 years of college and have about 24 years of experience working with diverse populations. So, I do have a rather large tool kit and good perspective. However, my interventions and strategies have to match my client's needs and expectations...I am solution-focused and do short-term work, typically 4 to 6 sessions. I also offer booster sessions as needed via phone, FaceTime, or in-home or office. Sometimes we need a reminder of who we are, what we’ve accomplished, and who we aspire to be. I’m passionate about what I do and seeing my clients’ successes brings me joy and affirmation that this is my vocation.”
“My dreams are to be an international motivational speaker, author a few books, work abroad as a visiting professor, and volunteer with Doctors without Borders."
Dr. Ramirez works with individuals, groups, and families. She engages in Critical Incident Stress Debriefing for organizations/businesses after a traumatic work-related event, such as an armed robbery, to help employees cope and refer them for further treatment. Dr. Ramirez is an adjunct professor at various colleges and universities in New Jersey; most recently, Montclair State University.
Instagram: Sonja.m.ramirez
Education and Training
St. John’s University Ph.D. Clinical Psychology 1998
The College of New Rochelle B.A. in Psychology, Math & Philosophy Minors 1993
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Dr. Sonja M. Ramirez, Ph.D's Expert Contributions
Neuroplasticity through Alohamora!
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I’m on the naMENDa: We Deserve to Heal
Initially, it was a tough pill to swallow - literally and figuratively. I was embarrassed and sad because I filled my head with self-judgement and helpless, cynical thoughts. It took words of strength, faith and hope from my father (my greatest fan and a beautiful soul who crawled out of the black...
I Can See Clearly Now
Finally, I can see clearly, even in the dark!While this seems to be a very simple, straightforward statement, it contains many layers that have formed over the past two decades.The surface - and simplest - meaning is that I now have a pair of night driving glasses with a .25 prescription. The number...
Take a Walk; Charge your brain!
Take a walk! Recharge! Plug in to nature; tune out from your phone. Your brain needs it!Your brain needs three times more oxygen than your muscles to stay healthy, boost its functions and to heal.Spend time wandering outdoors. Allow your mind to be still as you walk and enjoy the changing foliage,...
Happiness Jar
What has lead us to believe that we have to wait until Thanksgiving Day to gather as a community or a family to speak aloud about what we are grateful for? Gratitude is a daily attitude. It is a choice to be thankful for all that is good and meaningful in our lives, despite changing...
Rise Up!
Life is a series of lessons. Some we learn the first time, others require us to get knocked down a few times to finally look up and see the light. In AA, they call this the black hole. Wayne Dyer tells the story of falling into the same hole. The Bible has various proverbs about falling and...
Hope is Born in Hopeless Places; Compassion Saves Lives
Yesterday, I watched a story on the news about a high school coach who disarmed a teenage shooter and then hugged him with tremendous strength, force, and compassion. It brought me to tears. It’s one of the greatest acts of kindness and compassion I’ve seen on the news in a long time.That boy...
Relationships are Meant to Be 50/50
If we don’t take care of ourselves, eventually, taking care of others becomes a stressor and wears us down. I’ve been learning this lesson for the past 21 years.If you’re always in charge, and, you always appear to be OK, others can’t see it when you’re falling down and you need to be...
Believe in Yourself
I couldn’t have said it or written it better. Thank you, Eminem. Many of us have the same story regardless of race, ethnicity, environment, socioeconomic status, etc. We express and cope with our stories in different ways, but our stories are very similar. And I started from the bottom, Like a...
Rap is a Gift with a Bad Rap
If I could rap well, my lines would be: “I’m a conflict wrapped in a resolution. I’m a conundrum wrapped in an oxymoron. I‘m strongest after being knocked down. I’m as loyal as I am vicious.”As you can see, I am not a rapper, but, I do love rap. It’s a form of poetry and meditation...
Happiness is the best medicine. I’m high from healing!
When I go to physical therapy, I do shots of water and socialize, I get high on healing. Physical activity, socializing, and self-care get you “high,” naturally. They stimulate dopamine, serotonin, and all your brains neurotransmitters that boost mood.Happiness is a natural drug in your brain....
You Are the Author of Your Thoughts!
Dr. Seuss was a genius. I’m reminded of a quote from a book that I often read to my kids and still read to myself, “The storm starts, when the drops start dropping...When the drops stop dropping then the storm starts stopping.”We are the authors of our thoughts. We are in control of our...
The Calm AFTER the Storm
There's a coastal storm coming through that will literally be a force promoting clean up and renewal.Choose to be prepared.Gather what you truly need to get through the night and be ready for cleansing and new beginnings. Focus on preparation and the positive consequences of this storm.Change is...
Change your mind, change your day, week, life!
I remind myself of this daily. We are so powerful and full of infinite potential. We can change a bad mood or adapt to a tough situation by changing what we say to ourselves. The first step to change is thinking about it. That’s it! Just consider changing something specific. Next, choose to...
Ocean Breakers as Reminders/Guides
Chaos proceeds change. This statement has been made by many people in various forms. The message is the same. Repeating the same thoughts and behaviors will lead to the same poor mood and problems. We can choose to take the time to identify the thoughts and behaviors that are maladaptive and...
Timing Isn’t Everything
This is not only a play on a cliche, and the title of one of my favorite songs sung by Garrett Hedlund in the movie Country Strong. It’s the truth. Timing is personal and we don’t own time. Garrett Hedlund started guitar training in August, 6 months prior to filming his role. He went to...
Which is the best antidepressant for anxiety?
What makes you feel you need an anti-depressant for anxiety? I’m not a licensed psychiatrist or psychopharmacologist. I’m a psychologist. Some of my clients with mixed anxiety and depression have responded well to Lexapro in addition to therapy. Ask your doctor what he suggests based on your history and symptoms. Dr. Ramirez READ MORE
Is there a difference between psychoanalysis and psychology?
In my experience, a Psychologist has an advanced graduate degree, such as a PhD or PsyD, more training and a license. Anyone can be a “psychotherapist.” The training and licensing requirements are less strict. I hope this helps. Dr. Sonja READ MORE
Areas of expertise and specialization
Faculty Titles & Positions
- Adjunct Professor Montclair State University 2010 - Present
- Adjunct Professor Essex County College 2008 - Present
- Adjunct Professor William Paterson University 2007 - Present
- Adjunct Professor The College of New Rochelle 1998 - 1999
Awards
- Worldwide Leader in Healthcare 2019 International Association of Healthcare Professionals
Professional Memberships
- International Association of Healthcare Professionals
- American Psychological Association
- Certified Compassion Fatigue Practitioner by the International Association of Trauma Professionals
- Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology
Charities and Philanthropic Endeavors
- Girl Scouts of Northern New Jersey, Troop Leader, Troops 71005 & 94640 12 years
- Clifton Cares, Packing and shiping care packages to local deployed members of the military
- The March of Dimes
- The Lupus Foundation
- World Wildlife Federation
- The Trust for Public Land
- American Red Cross
- Pro bono work with underserved and underprivileged client populations
What do you attribute your success to?
- If she doesn\'t know something, she is the first to admit it. She has learned a lot from her clients, which she feels are great resources.
Hobbies / Sports
- Hiking, Walking, Meditation
Areas of research
Publications:
• The psychological impact of COVID-19 on essential healthcare workers: An informal survey of compassion fatigue. International Journal of Emergency Mental Health and Human Resilience. Pending publication 2022.
• Relationship of numbing to alexithymia, apathy and depression. Psychological Reports, volume 88. January 2001.
• Personality development and psychotherapy in our diverse society: A sourcebook. Co-authored a book chapter. Jason Aronson, Inc. May 1998.
• Severity of symptoms of depression and anxiety as predictors of duration of psychotherapy. Psychological Reports, Volume 82. January 1998.
• Incidence and effects of parallel process in psychotherapy supervision. The Clinical Supervisor, volume 15(2). March 1997.
• Cultural attunement and personality assessment. Journal of Social Distress and the Homeless, volume 6. January 1997.
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- Theresa
Dr. Ramirez is an excellent provider. She is compassionate and professional. I would highly recommend her.
- Denis
Thank you for always being there to help me. Our talks mean so much and always clear my head.
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