If you are aware of having an infection and you know your partner who you suspect you got the infection from then most patients have already asked their partner those questions. If they haven’t, then they need to find out the answer to those questions or they need to call their partner to have them get seen by their own healthcare provider or by an Urgent Care. The best approach is to take precautions at the time of relations; and if you are unwilling to ask those questions, and are unwilling to ask your partner after the fact, then you may need to ask yourself why you’ve put yourself into that situation; unless you’ve been coerced which means protect yourself at all costs!!!