“I caught my husband having an affair?”
I have been married for 19 years and I caught my husband having an affair yesterday. The woman is only 25 years old. How do I forgive him for this? He wants to make it work.
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Please work with him and also seek help from a therapist.
You have to start marriage counseling.
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This is very traumatic for you. It will take time for your husband to earn your trust again. Trust develops gradually based on a person proving trustworthy by being trustworthy in larger ways. So, he has a lot of work to show you that you can trust him.
I would recommend that you find an experienced marriage counselor who can assess what led your husband to this affair and who can help you make your marriage more secure.
You should see a therapist and consider couples counselling.
Is he open to going to couples counseling? If he wants to make it work, that is a good place to start.
Louisa Gluck, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Louisa Gluck, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Take a look at this You Tube Video on the topic
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=having+an+affair+and+forgiving+partner&view=detail&mid=431466BC81B88CD9D140431466BC81B88CD9D140&FORM=VIRE
Consider going to couples therapy with an experience therapist who has dealt with reconciling with a partner who has had an affair.
https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=having+an+affair+and+forgiving+partner&view=detail&mid=431466BC81B88CD9D140431466BC81B88CD9D140&FORM=VIRE
Consider going to couples therapy with an experience therapist who has dealt with reconciling with a partner who has had an affair.
