“Is there something wrong with me?”
I'm an 18 year old girl, I have a boyfriend (I've never had sex). but one thing I've noticed is I've never had any sexual desire for anything and I don't even know what that feels like. Masturbation sounds horribly gross and unnatural. I've never looked at someone in a sexual way. Is this not normal? I don't want to have sex anyway.
Female | 18 years old
2 Answers
Hey there, there is nothing wrong with you. Society has programmed us with what to feel and when…you are your own independent individual and continue on strengthening your sense of self. You will know when you are ready to explore external pleasures. Remember that we are all different and it’s okay.
There is no such thing as "normal" in this instance. Everyone has their own timeframe regarding sexuality. Things like taking some medications, family history, trauma or even hormone imbalance can play a part in this issue. I suggest seeing an OB/GYN for a checkup and a therapist for some time to discuss your feelings.
