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Is there something wrong with me?

I'm an 18 year old girl, I have a boyfriend (I've never had sex). but one thing I've noticed is I've never had any sexual desire for anything and I don't even know what that feels like. Masturbation sounds horribly gross and unnatural. I've never looked at someone in a sexual way. Is this not normal? I don't want to have sex anyway.

Female | 18 years old

3 Answers

OB-GYN(Obstetrician-Gynecologist)OB-GYN
What you’re describing can be completely normal. Not everyone experiences sexual desire or interest in the same way—or at all. If you have any further questions or need more clarity, please consult with a psychiatrist. If you`re in Texas, we welcome you to reach out to www.MidCitiesPsychiatry.com, we`re here to help you.
Hey there, there is nothing wrong with you. Society has programmed us with what to feel and when…you are your own independent individual and continue on strengthening your sense of self. You will know when you are ready to explore external pleasures. Remember that we are all different and it’s okay.
There is no such thing as "normal" in this instance. Everyone has their own timeframe regarding sexuality. Things like taking some medications, family history, trauma or even hormone imbalance can play a part in this issue. I suggest seeing an OB/GYN for a checkup and a therapist for some time to discuss your feelings.